How do you put into words what's written in your heart? Hi, we’re Jen and Joel and we want to thank you for giving us this opportunity to share a little about ourselves. We are not going to pretend we know what you are going through, because we certainly do not. The range of emotions you must be feeling are probably indescribable and overwhelming at times. This may be the first thing, but hopefully not the last thing we have in common, as our feelings of yearning for a son or daughter are also indescribable. We’ve sat here and sat here, trying to start this letter- sometimes laughing, sometimes crying, yet the words have been hard to find to express our emotions. How do you put into words what’s written in your heart? We’re not pros at this, and we don’t want to use fancy terms to try to relate to you, as we are not “fancy” people. We are two ordinary people in love, whose struggle to start a family has drawn us into an even deeper love and respect for each other that we did not know possible- just another example of how something painful and difficult can bring about something good and positive.