Dear Expectant Mother,
We write you with the most sincere of
hearts. We know that you have a very big
choice to make and we admire your courage and strength in making such a
selfless decision. We can only imagine how difficult this may be. We want to thank
you for taking a look at our profile and considering us as the adoptive parents
for your child. If you were to choose
us, we promise to fill your child’s life with love, joy, fun, and
laughter. We promise to love your child
with all our hearts.
We have so much love to give and wish
to share that love with your child. We
promise to guide and support him or her in whatever goals they may set for
themselves throughout their life to help them grow into independent, respectful
adults. Your child will be loved and cherished;
he or she will bring a lifetime of joy and happiness to us and our family. It has been our lifelong dream to be parents
and without your incredible gift and sacrifice it would not be possible. We know
words cannot adequately describe how grateful we are to you and even though
we've never met, we pray for you and your child every day.
We have been
married for nine happy, wonderful years and are extremely excited to expand our
family with the arrival of your child. We both come from very strong family
values and make the extra effort to spend quality time with family and friends.
Sundays are a very special day for both of us. We have both made a commitment
since the very beginning of our relationship that Sundays are reserved for us
and our families and nothing else, especially work. We typically do not have
anything planned for Sundays other than going to church in the morning.
Afterwards we usually go to brunch and then maybe go see a movie or catch a
baseball game. Other times we may go to an
event or festival that may be going on or take a drive down the backcountry
roads to some of the nearby farming towns to get a late lunch. It really
doesn’t matter what we do as long as we are spending time together as family. In
the evening we always go visit our parents before returning home.
On Friday and
Saturday evenings we can usually be found at one of the local racecar dirt tracks
where we help our friends with their racecars. Racing may not be considered a
family activity but it really is special to us.
Most of the people that are out there racing are there with their
families including wives, brothers, children and even their own parents. Almost
everyone that races have had someone in his or her family involved with racing
in one way or another. That is how I (Fernando) got involved in racing. As a
child and as a teenager, my dad would take me to the races on the weekends. He later introduced me to a racecar driver
and his dad, who throughout the years have become great friends.
These are some of
the activities that we anxiously await to include your child in. All of our
family and friends always ask how our adoption process is going and are very excided
for the day your child arrives. We have made a commitment to each other to love
each other and to spend as much time as possible together and we are making the
same commitment to your child. Be assured that your child will have all the
love, care and attention he or she deserves. Thank you again for considering us
for the opportunity to love and care for your child.
Fernando & Yvette