Thank you so much for
taking the time to read this letter. We
would like to share with you a little about our lives so that you may know the
wonderful, positive, and nurturing environment your little girl will grow up
in. The choice you are making is the
most selfless choice a mother can make, a decision made out of pure love for
names are Erik and Debbie. We have been
married since 2005, but have been together since high school. We are each
other’s best friends. Our relationship
is based on mutual love and respect. One of the elements in our long
relationship has been humor. No matter
what the situation is we try to find the positive and keep it light.
Erik and I have always
wanted children. After years of
infertility treatments we decided to turn to adoption to fulfill our dream. Our
dreams came true when we adopted our son Nicholas. He is the sweetest and most wonderful little
boy anyone could ever dream of. He is
the center of our world. He loves to
play with his cousins and friends and he can’t wait to be a “big brother” to
his little sister. Before bedtime Nick and I go out on our front porch and wish
on the first star we see for a little sister to come into our lives. She will be surrounded by so much love and
support. It will be so wonderful for
your little girl to grow up having a big brother to share experiences with and
go through life together.
We both know how
important it is for parents to be involved in their children’s lives, to love
and care, and be there for them. Erik is
in law enforcement and has a flexible schedule.
I’m a kindergarten teacher with summers off, as well as breaks and snow
days throughout the year. I am planning on taking time off from my job when the
time comes to love and nurture our new little girl.
We strongly believe
that family is the most important thing in life. Our time at home revolves
around our family. Our family enjoys being active and outside activities. In
the summer we enjoy inviting family and friends to meet us at the lake and water
ski and tube behind our ski boat. During the winter time our family enjoys
skating and ice fishing on our local lakes, skiing and snowboarding at a local
mountain, and sledding and tubing down our hill in our yard. We can’t wait to
teach our children how to take part in all these seasonal activities.
Spending time with our
children is one of the most important things we can do as parents to ensure our
children will always know how much we love them. We will
help guide your little girl to become a good person, secure and confident in
whatever she decides to do in her life and to know that she can count on us to
be there for her always.
Thank you for letting
us share a little bit about our family with you. We would be honored if you chose us to raise
your little girl. We intend to be honest
about the adoption and we and let your child know you made the unselfish
decision because you loved her so much and wanted the best for her. We look forward to getting to know you and
waiting for your call that will fulfill our dreams of having a daughter.
Appreciation and Love,
Erik & Debbie