Dear Expectant Mother,
We feel so blessed and honored that you would consider us as
parents for your precious baby. We admire you for making this courageous,
loving, yet difficult choice of adoption. Life can sometimes be complicated
with difficult decisions along the way and we really respect your strength in
this selfless journey you are choosing. We believe God and fate have made our
We have been blessed with an incredible life and very much
look forward to bringing a daughter into our family. Our 2 and 4-year-old sons pray
for their future baby sister every night when we say prayers before bed. They
go to a Montessori pre-school 2 times a week which has been amazing. We also go
to the Mommy & Me classes that our local college offers which teaches them
sign language (both boys never really had tantrums because of learning sign
language, they did not have the frustration of not being able to communicate
before they could speak) and we go to a different park every week. It’s been
great learning all the places to go with kids in our community. The boys love
their music classes every week and have been in swimming since they were babies
because we live near the ocean and have a pool. They are excellent swimmers at even
at their young ages. They also play soccer at our local park and we enjoy the
library for story time often. Every Sunday we go to mass at our church and then
breakfast at our favorite restaurant.
We have several friends who have also adopted, so it has
been amazing to have support and have our kids growing up with other adopted
children and not feeling “different.” We go back east a couple times a year to
spend time with family, and to Hawaii a couple times a year. It’s one of our
favorite places. Last summer we drove our motor home from California to New York
by the southern route, returning by the northern route. We camped at a
different KOA each night and stopped to visit both boys’ birthparents along the
way. We stayed a month at Tracy’s parents’
house on the east coast! It was a great family bonding trip.
We have been blessed with a great open relationship with
both boys’ birth parents. We send pictures and have traveled to see both of
them in Michigan and Arkansas. We are open to whatever your desire is. We
believe it’s important for our children to know about their birth mothers and
that they loved them enough to choose adoption.
We have a river house on the Colorado River in Arizona that
we go to on a regular basis to go boating, 4 wheeling & relaxing, The kids
love it there because there are several other families with kids they get to
play with there. The boys both love to help Mom cook & bake. They are such
good helpers. We read a few times a day from the books they pick from the book
shelf in their room. One other thing we love doing is visiting the elderly in
the nursing home which we do on a regular basis. The old people love the kids!!
The boys also come with us to feed the homeless once a month. We love having
kids and experiencing life together!
We are faith filled and involved in our church and
community. We volunteer at our local nursing home and homeless shelter. We are
very energetic, loving, compassionate people. We enjoy camping, hiking, biking
and boating. We have so much love to offer your child and pray you will find
peace in knowing that your child will be cherished and adored in a very stable
home with many opportunities available. We are fortunate that Kevin owns his
own company which allows him to have flexible hours to be home when he wants to
be. Tracy loves her job as a registered nurse working part-time which gives her
the flexibility to be home 6 days a week.
We have been praying and believe God will deliver us the
child we are meant to have. We so look forward to having a daughter and sister
for Christian and Noah!
We will keep you in
our prayers that you may find peace of mind and heart.
Kevin & Tracy