Dear Expectant Mother,
We are Dorian and Laura. We know you have many choices ahead
of you and we thank you for considering us to be the parents of your child. We
greatly admire the love you are showing your baby by planning her adoption.
The work you are doing right now is hard, selfless and brave. We are
praying for you and can’t wait to meet you!
We want you to know that we have come to the decision to adopt after
careful thought and planning, just like you have. We were deeply saddened when
we found out we couldn’t have any more children, but we believe that all God
permits in our lives is for our good and His glory. And we believe that one of
the reasons for our infertility was perhaps the very purpose of connecting us
with you and redeeming both our circumstances at once. If you choose us, we
would want you to always feel confident that your child is growing up in safe,
warm home, full of laughter, creativity, and stories with a loving family and
the opportunity to become all she can be.
We met in college, and were each other’s very first
boyfriend and girlfriend. Dorian always said that if he could just convince me
to go on a date with him, he knew we would get married. Even though it took me
a little longer to see how “obvious” this was, it turned out he was right after
all! We were married soon after college and have spent the last 10 years building
a life together that we both love.
We are both very engaged in raising our 4-year- old,
Jackson. Dorian is a full-time stay-at-home dad and also works some evenings
when Laura is home from work. Jackson is already looking forward to being a great
big brother – every night he prays with us that God would bring our family a
baby. He is, of course, not our only reason for wanting to adopt, but he sure
is a BIG part of the love that will surround your child in our home! He loves Legos,
cars, painting, coloring, stories and singing about everything he does. He is
full of wonder and amazement at the world around him, and loves to look at the trees
and the clouds and play in the rain. He’s already talking about teaching all
these things to a little sister, when he becomes a big brother.
We are grateful that you are considering adoption and want
you to know that if you choose us, that you would always be a part of our
story. We would always tell your child how much you loved her and created
a special plan for her to grow up with our family.
Thank you for considering us as your child’s adoptive
All Our Love,
Dorian, Laura and Jackson