Dear Expectant Mother,
We’d like to start off by sharing that we have no idea how
you are feeling at this time and can only imagine what a life changing decision
this is for you. As you look through the many profiles, we hope that in some
way, we can say something “special” to quell your fears about how your
daughter’s life will be outside of your care. We can promise you that we will
put forth every actionable effort to make sure she grows up in a happy, stable,
and loving home. We will make sure she has the best education and will instill
in her great values that she can carry with her for the rest of her life.
Please consider taking a risk on us, as this is the best gift
you can give your baby, one she will be grateful for. We feel like we have a
special understanding of “being adopted,” since I, Monica, was adopted as a
newborn and came to live with a wonderful family that has given me more love
and support than I could have ever asked for. There hasn’t been a time that I
have not been able to rely on my family during both the great and the not so
great times in my life. I can only imagine that you would want that for your
daughter and if you give us a chance, we will be there for every tear, every
happy moment, and all the in between.
We enjoy going to the beach or to outdoor venues where we
can enjoy the outdoors. Monica is a foodie, and we love finding great places to
eat. Our families are very close and we see them often. We enjoy spending time
with them each week, and celebrating holidays and birthdays together. Christmas
is especially fun, and we go big! We watch Elf – maybe multiple times – and look
forward to sharing our holiday traditions with your daughter. Since our
daughter is young, we spend every minute with her. But as she, and her sister
grow, we will enjoy a few of the things we did before we started our family,
including Paint Nites, Hockey games, museums and galleries, golfing and working
out. We are also looking forward to spending family time on activities that the
girls want to do.
We’ve had it on our heart to adopt for a while, and decided
to move forward with adopting even after having a child. We felt God’s calling
for us to adopt and to bring a baby girl into our family to love and raise up
to be a strong, smart, kind woman. We are so excited to have a lovely little one
in our home and we can’t wait to dote on her and to share our lives with her.
We have a son who is 19 and comes to visit, as well as a baby girl that is
waiting for her future best friend.
We are so thankful for this opportunity and hope that you
can see our genuineness in our desire to have a new addition to our family. We also
have a large extended family that is ready to love up on her, so hopefully you
decide we are the best choice!
Mark and Monica