Dear Expectant Mother,
Thank you for taking the time to review our profile. We cannot even begin to imagine what you must be going through and we admire your bravery in considering adoption for your child. If you choose us, we promise to provide your child with a loving and secure family and life.
Children and family have a central role in our lives. We have dedicated our lives and careers to work closely with children and families for many years (Monika as a child psychologist and Tom as a physician, trained in both pediatrics and adult medicine) and are well-prepared to be stable and affectionate parents. After recovering from the disappointment of being unsuccessful with having a biological child, we feel that our struggle was meant to lead us to opening our lives to a child and birth mother through adoption.
Family, friends, and tradition are a huge part of our lives. Monika’s parents have been married for 45 years and Tom’s parents for 38 years. They are wonderful examples of marriage and how to raise a family. We are blessed to have warm and loving families who are excited to be a huge part of our future child’s life. Tom’s parents are in the process of retiring and moving closer to us to provide assistance with raising their grandchildren. Monika’s parents adore their grandchildren and are looking forward to helping raise another grandchild. In addition to this, we have a strong social group that would serve an integral role in your child’s life. Some of our closest friends are either parents of an adopted child, or in the process of having children. Therefore, your child would be immediately surrounded by other children and in a home that is full of warmth, happiness, and promotes growth.
People who know us well would say we are always happy, laugh often, and live life to the fullest. We look on the bright side of life and make the best of any situation. Our marriage and home are full of joy, kindness, and love. We enjoy spending quality time at home watching TV and movies, cooking together, having friends over for BBQs, or relaxing in our backyard. As health is important to both of us, we enjoy running together around our neighborhood or in the beautiful woods by our house.
We believe in enjoying every moment and taking time to appreciate the people and simple gifts in life. We want to raise children who practice kindness, gratitude, and contribute to the world through their gifts and talents. It would be our honor to love and teach your child these lessons. We promise to do everything we can to offer your child a happy and rich life and to teach them the skills and confidence to handle life’s challenges.
Thank you again for taking some time to learn more about us and consider our family for your child. We are thinking of you during this difficult time in your life and wish you peace and hope.
Sincerely and with gratitude,
Tom & Monika