are Ruthie and Chris and there are no words to express how emotional it is for
us to write this letter to you. Likewise, we are sure that it is just as
emotional for you to be reading it. We consider ourselves honored and blessed
for you to even consider us in raising your precious child. We recognize how
difficult this decision must be for you; however, please know that we admire
your courage and are forever grateful for the chance. We want to thank you for
taking the time to read this letter and to learn more about us as you decide what
will be best for your child.
2012, we met on Match.com (we know...haha) and we fell in love at first sight.
We knew that we wanted to be together forever and married in 2014. We were then
ready to start a family of our own, as we have both always dreamed of becoming
parents. With that, we could have never known where the journey would take us:
we had many losses. Yet, we never
gave up on the dream of starting our family. The obstacles we faced brought us
closer, stronger and even more determined to raise a child in a loving and
compassionate home. As a result, we continued our focus on family planning and
adoption became a clear choice.
that, if we are chosen to be a part of your adoption plan, we will treasure
every moment with your child as we know the importance of being grateful and
not taking anything for granted. We will make sure that all of the time we get
to spend raising your child will be filled with love and happiness.
have a lovely nursery that is already painted a light sage green and will be a
joy to decorate for your little one. Family near and far will share in our
happiness, as short road trips to the lake and to the ocean will be necessary
for them to meet the bundle of joy. We are eager to surround your child with
our community of close and loving family and friends and we are beyond excited
to open our home and our hearts to your child. Please rest assured that he/she
will be treasured and will be given everything he/she needs to thrive and have
a happy and wonderful life.
will be trips to the zoo, swing sets, playdates, trips to the park, sunsets,
beach fun, carousel rides, holidays, birthday parties, first dates, proms and
everything a child can dream of. Chris absolutely loves sports and cannot wait
to share the rules of the game, going to sporting events and throwing the ball
around. Ruthie loves arts/crafts and dreams of decorating the Christmas tree
and spending quality time at parks. We both love outdoor activities such as
boating, hiking and going to the beach. While we love sharing this time
together with friends and family, we are ready, willing and able to bring a
child into our home to also share these experiences with.
will also make sure your child knows the value of hard work and finding
strength in him/herself to achieve his/her dreams. We both work very hard and
believe in the values of ethics, respect and responsibility. We want to afford
your child all of the things he/she needs to feel good about him/herself and
will support him/her throughout this journey of life. Nothing would bring us
more joy than being able to provide your child with everything that he/she
needs to be happy and successful. We both love helping people and Ruthie works
as a guidance counselor in the inner city and is well versed in education. We
will make sure your child receives the best education possible.
are humbled by your strength and we promise that we will never take this
amazing gift for granted. While we cannot imagine how hard this is for you, the
solace we can give you is that we will do everything in our power to make sure
that your child is loved to the moon and back, not only by us, but by our
friends and family tribe, who have been incredibly supportive throughout our
journey to start our family.
you again for your consideration and best wishes to you and yours.