Placing your child for adoption is never easy. If you feel adoption may be appropriate for you, it is ideal to contact a reputable Adoption professional. Adoption professionals can help you and your child, ensuring an adoption placement in a good home with great parents.
Some expectant mothers may turn to their primary physician to get them in touch with adoption professionals. If you are unsure of which path to take, talk to you doctor about your options, your concerns, and what you want for your child. They should be able to point you in the right direction.
Finding the Right Parents for Your Baby
There are a few options when selecting an adoption professional and adoptive parents for your baby. Many expectant mothers first contact an adoption agency, but there are also adoption facilitators, lawyers, and other professionals. The main avenues are as follows:
- Adoption Agency or Law Center: This choice is usually more attractive because an agency acts as a sort of middleman between the birth mother and the adoptive parents. If you feel wary of meeting strangers, are unsure of how to go about it, or simply feel overwhelmed at the idea, an agency will do the hard part of tracking down potential parents through their often stringent screening process. Once parents have been screened, the agency will send the birth mother some adoption profiles to peruse. If the birth mother finds a family, individual, or couple that feels like a good fit, she will let the agency know and further steps will be taken. Of course, as helpful as this option is, it is also less hands on than others. You will certainly have an opportunity to meet the adoptive parents at some point, but all in all, the agency will handle most communications and interactions between both parties. If you want to be more involved with the parent-picking process, this may not be the choice for you.
- Adoption Facilitator: An adoption facilitator is the perfect example of an extremely scaled back adoption professional. With this option, the birth mother or adoptive parents have usually already found one another, leaving the facilitator in charge of helping both parties with the legal and technical aspects of the adoption journey. Hopeful adoptive parents will often advertise themselves and their profiles with the help of an adoption facilitator in the hopes of reaching an expectant mother. In this case, the adoptive parents are picking you as much as you are picking them. You may find adoptive parent advertisements through adoption classified ads or even social media if you are not already working with an agency.
- Family or Friend: Perhaps you have a family member or close friend who you know will be willing to take and raise your child. In this case, you have already found and chosen your adoptive parent(s) and are now looking for an adoption professional such as a social worker or adoption lawyer to help.
As an expectant mother facing an unplanned pregnancy, you have a number of options available to you. Of course, you have a say in what happens with your body and your baby. But sometimes, you don’t know which way to turn. If you are feeling you won’t be able to care for a child in the way it needs or deserves, adoption may be the best option for you.
However, even if you have decided on placing your child for adoption, you may be seeing a number of other road blocks ahead of you – the biggest being how you will find adoptive parents you trust. Fortunately, there are ways to find great adoptive parents that you feel comfortable placing your child with. Through a number of different resources, you can learn about adoptive parents, get to know some, and gather all necessary information to make your final decision.