Tony and Cami

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From Us to You

Thank you for taking the time to consider us as possible parents for your baby. We know that this is a difficult decision and we want to assure you that we will cherish and love your child with all our hearts. 

If you can envision your baby being raised in a multilingual household in Texas, with a nutrition-focused mom and a nerdy dad, surrounded by a loving extended family, then we might be the perfect fit. If you choose us, your child will be welcomed into a home where grandparents, uncles, aunties, and cousins are all eager to shower them with affection and love. Our family lives close by and both sets of grandparents are eager to help with your baby when we return to work. 

We didn’t arrive at the decision to adopt lightly. We tried to conceive on our own for two years before learning that it wasn’t possible. After researching and speaking with friends who have been adopted, we knew that adoption was the right path for us. Those same friends stressed to us how important it is for kids to know where they come from and to have some type of connection to their birth parents. So, if you are comfortable with it we would love for your baby to know who you are. And if chosen, we are very open to discussing what you would prefer in terms of updates, visits, letters, or photos. 

Professionally, we both work from home and have flexible schedules. We prioritize work-life balance and spending quality time with each other and our future child. We are both avid travelers and life-long learners. We speak multiple languages between us, and we love to explore different cities and countries together. One of our favorite things to do is take yearly trips to a new country, and we can’t wait to bring your child along with us on our adventures. We want to raise your child to be a global citizen and embrace different cultures and experiences. 

We understand that adoption may be the best choice for you and your baby at this time. We want to offer a loving, supportive home where your child will always feel secure and happy. We are not here to replace you but to offer support to your child. As we are not able to have children on our own, we are asking for your help to grow our family. 

Thank you again for considering us as potential parents. We would be honored to provide your child with a loving home and a bright future. 

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Why We are Choosing to Adopt

Starting a family has been one of our greatest desires since we got married, 6 years ago. However, after a long time of trying, we discovered through multiple tests and surgery that traditional methods would not work for us. Despite this setback, we knew that we still wanted to grow our family and share our love with a child. We started exploring alternate paths to parenthood, and that’s when Cami’s former coworker shared her story with us. She had experienced a similar situation, and was able to connect with an expectant mom through ANLC, who decided to make an adoption plan with them. Their child is now 12, and has a warm, loving home. Hearing about her experience resonated with us, and we knew that adoption was the right path for us. 

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About Cami, by Tony

Cami is one of the most dynamic and curious people I have met, she has a love for learning and meeting new people. As a native Texan, she has a deep appreciation for her home state and its unique culture. From an early age, Cami was involved in sports, playing soccer throughout her childhood and into her 20s. She remains close with many of her teammates to this day, and our shared love of soccer often leads us to plan trips around big games and events. 

Throughout our relationship, I have been continually impressed by Cami’s passion for trying new things. From acting classes to photography, she is constantly pushing herself to learn and grow. Recently, she embarked on a complete career change, returning to school to become a dietitian. Now, she specializes in helping people with eating disorders and GI disorders, and her dedication to her patients is truly inspiring. 

As a mom, I know Cami will bring the same level of passion and dedication to your child. She will be devoted to helping them explore their interests and will provide a loving and nurturing home environment. 

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About Tony, by Cami

Tony was born in England, where his father was stationed in the military, and spent his childhood in various states before settling in Texas. His mother is English, making him a naturalized British citizen and giving him the option to become a dual citizen. Tony is passionate about travel, spending time with friends, and watching new and lesser-known movies. He’s also an avid trivia buff and tries out for “Jeopardy” every year. His sense of humor is infectious, and he loves to tell a good dad joke to make people laugh. 

But what sets Tony apart is his innate kindness and patience, which were evident from the early days of our relationship. Several of my friends, without me asking, commented on how much they liked him, a testament to his character. I’m certain these qualities will make him an incredible father. He is looking forward to teaching your child all sorts of “nerdy” games that he loves, like chess and more, and I am excited to see him share his passion for learning and discovery with our child. 

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Lifestyle

Every morning, our day starts with taking our beloved red heeler dog, Shay, on a walk around our beautiful neighborhood. We always see other people walking their dogs or pushing strollers, and we often spot deer grazing on the green lawns. Shay is an integral part of our lives and she follows us around throughout the day, always keeping a watchful eye on the surroundings. She loves to notify us whenever the mail arrives by barking excitedly. We love to keep Shay fashionable and often dress her up in bandanas that match the season or occasion. 

Family and friends mean the world to us, and we prioritize spending quality time with them. On weekends, we often invite them over for dinner parties, game nights, or gatherings at our family lake house where we spend our days swimming, boating, and soaking up the sun. During the week, we mostly stay home, cook dinner together, watch our favorite shows, go for a walk, or sit on our back porch to watch the deer that roam around the park behind our house. Both of us grew up playing sports and being active, and we are excited to introduce your child to the joys of sports and outdoor adventures. We love to try new things so we prioritize experiences over gifts and will often “gift” each other adventures — whether it be concert tickets, cooking classes, trips or just date nights to new restaurants around town. We believe that staying connected with our loved ones and being active are essential for building a happy and strong family. 

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Home & Neighborhood

Our house is in a quiet neighborhood that backs up to a park with tons of trees and trails. When we moved in we had several neighbors welcome us by bringing cakes and cookies over and introducing themselves. It is the first place we have lived that truly feels like a community, where people stop to chat on walks and are always willing to help if needed. We have a playscape that is right down the street and it is always full of kids and families. We can’t wait to take our future child there to play and meet more of our neighbors. Our home is two stories with a front living room that we intend to make a playroom for our future child. The nursery will be upstairs close to our bedroom and Cami’s home office. Our favorite places to hang out in the house are in our living room/kitchen where we will catch up after work and cook or on our screened in porch. If the weather is nice we will eat on our porch or have our morning coffee.  

Our Relationship with You

If you are comfortable with it, we would be honored to maintain a connection between your baby and you. We understand the importance of having a sense of identity and knowing where one comes from. We have spoken with friends who have been adopted and learned how valuable it is to have some form of connection with their birth parents, whether it be through a photo, letter, or regular updates. However, we also understand that this may not be your desire, and we will respect your wishes. If you do choose us, we look forward to discussing with you what level of connection you are comfortable with and how we can best honor your wishes.

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Our Families & Friends

We cherish our close relationships with our families. Cami’s family all resides in the same city and we get together almost every week for shared meals, pool days, or watching sports. Cami’s brother’s daughters are adored by her parents, who love being grandparents. Cami’s dad, Pops, has a regular weekly visit with his granddaughters, and he’s excited to extend the same love to your child. 

Tony’s brother lives nearby and works as an educator, while his parents live an hour away, and his sisters reside in other states. Our child will be Tony’s parents’ first grandchild, and they have already expressed interest in relocating closer to us once the baby arrives. 

We are fortunate to have close friends who live in the same area, some with small children. They have already started offering us valuable advice and their time for playdates and babysitting. Our friends are a part of our extended family, and we enjoy spending time with them often. Every year, we host a Friendsgiving and take a group trip with different friends. We’re excited to bring your child on these trips and help them develop long-lasting friendships with our friends’ kids. We both have friendships that have lasted for over 20 or 30 years, and we hope your child can form similar lifelong bonds. 

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Racial & Cultural Diversity

Cami had the opportunity to study abroad in college and lived in Switzerland, immersing herself in the French language and culture. She also taught English in Thailand during her travels to Asia. Tony grew up in a multicultural household, with an African American father and a British mother. Due to his father’s military background, he lived in several different places and was exposed to different cultures from a young age. As a couple, we share a love of traveling and exploring new places and cultures, visiting museums, and trying new foods. Our circle of friends and family is diverse as well, and we value celebrating all races and cultures.

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Family Traditions

During the holiday season, we enjoy spending time with both sides of our family. Our get togethers are always filled with fun games, delicious food, and thoughtful presents. Additionally, we like to surprise each other with small “pillow presents” from time to time, just to let each other know we are thinking about them. We are also avid soccer fans and wake up early on the weekends to watch matches. While we support different teams, we will encourage your child to choose their own soccer team to cheer for! 

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Our Promise to You

Our commitment to you is that we will provide your child with a nurturing and supportive home where they can thrive. In these uncertain times, we will strive to create a secure and uplifting environment. We pledge to prioritize love, patience, and attentive care, ensuring your child’s happiness and well-being. Your decision was made out of love, and we will make sure that your child knows that. Our extended family will be there to support and cherish your child, including cousins, grandparents, aunts, and uncles. We will love your child unconditionally, and we will always be open and honest with them about their adoption, your identity, and the love that you have for them.