Dear Expectant Mother,
Thank you so much for considering adoption for your baby. We
can only imagine that this must be an extremely difficult choice and transition
for you. However, your selflessness and compassion is truly appreciated. Please
take comfort in knowing that your baby will be well-provided for and will be
raised in a loving and safe household. In our household, family always comes
We will raise your beautiful child to be an independent,
compassionate, responsible, humble, and happy person. They will be subjected to
spontaneous dancing, singing, cuddling, and laughter in our household. We will
teach them honor and respect, which are touchstones from both sides of our
extended family. Regardless of our endeavors, we want you to know that we will raise
your child to love life and seek opportunities with a sense of adventure.
Your child will know as much about his/her birth parents as
you allow. We are more than happy to share photos and stories about his or her development.
We believe it is healthy for children to understand their history/origin and
have the opportunity to reconnect if they so choose.
We are so ready and excited to be parents and would love to
grow our family and have multiple children, God willing. Sadly, we lost two
babies due to ruptured ectopic/tubal pregnancies during back-to-back
Christmases. Gina required life-saving surgeries both times to stop internal
bleeding caused by the ruptures, but damage was already done to her
reproductive system. Since then, we have tried several iterations of IVF with unsuccessful
results. We then realized that making our own children was not our purpose. We have
always had strong feelings towards adoption, and we wouldn't be able to be
parents without your sacrifice. But it's not about us, it's about your precious
child who deserves the chance to have the best in life. He/she will know their
worth and how much they are loved by all of us.
We have a lot of love to offer and will love your child as
if they were our own flesh and blood. Rest assured that when your baby is just
about ready, we will have a safe and happy home waiting for him/her. We will
support your child for the rest of their life, through all the precious moments
and growing pains.
Thank you for considering us to be the family that takes
care of your little one who will hopefully become our miracle baby.
Al and Gina