Dear Expectant Mother,
Hi! Hello. Where do we begin to talk about this life
changing journey? We can only imagine what you are going through. With any
decision you make, please know that we consider you a strong, brave individual.
You can rest assure that Rudolf (RJ) and I (Elle) are ready to love your child
unconditionally and will provide the best of everything that we can.
RJ and I are an easy-going couple with strong-rooted family
values. We often spend time with our family and friends, traveling, visiting,
relaxing and enjoying the stable bond that both of our families and friends
provide. We especially needed this bond when RJ and I discovered we couldn’t
have our own baby. When we found out that we were unable to conceive on our own,
we felt that God must have something else planned for us to grow our
family—this is when we decided to adopt a baby we will love like our own.
We would love to take your child to family vacations,
children parties (since we have five godchildren) and would love to see him/her
grow and discover the wonder of life. We enjoy going on vacations to such
places as Disneyland or Disneyworld, and attend child-friendly events like comic
cons. We can see your child being a little spoiled, since he/she will be the
first grandchild for Elle’s parents. RJ’s niece and nephew will have another
cousin to play with. We have friends that all have young children that we often
see during family parties, so our child will have plenty of “cousins” to play
with. Our immediate families and friends live less than an hour away and are
people we can count on for support. In fact, Elle’s best friend of twenty plus
years lives five minutes away and is looking forward to being a godmother!
When we are not working on our house, we enjoy paint nights,
traveling and playing with our puppy, Quinn. Sometimes our most enjoyable and
relaxing time is simply staying home, cuddling and enjoying a movie. We have a
lovely, cozy, three-bedroom house with a large fenced backyard. Our
neighborhood is secluded, yet walking distance to shops, restaurants, parks,
and schools. There are several schools that are 20 minutes or less away from
our house. We envision your child getting a good education and using that
education as a spring board to do whatever they want to in life. As Elle’s dad
would say, “To have hobbies, you need a good job, to have a good job, you need
a good education.” To help with education expenses, we have started making
monthly deposits to a school fund for your child. A child can safely walk or
ride their bike to school or a friend’s house in our town. One of our
goddaughters lives just five minutes away and loves to come by for a visit. When
we spend time with her, we like to work on our arts and crafts, go out to eat
and every year go to a pumpkin patch for Halloween. It’s become our tradition. We
would love to do these activities with your child, too.
As much as we want a child, we understand that this
situation must be very hard for you. We honor whatever decision you make. We
thank you for reading our profile and possibly considering us to care for your
baby. We are simple folks full of love and would make great parents. But
the decision is yours. May God bless you!
Elle & RJ