Dear Expectant Mother Considering Adoption,
“A mother’s love for her child is like no
other love. To be able to put that feeling aside because you want the best for
your child is the most unselfish thing I know.” - Mary, Birth Mother. It
is an unbelievably selfless decision you’re considering, and please know that
we will do everything to give your baby the best life possible. We’ve had
to make a lot of really difficult decisions dealing with infertility, but we
can’t even begin to imagine what you’re going through right now.
Despite our struggles with infertility, we’ve
always planned on adopting in the hope that we could give a good life to a
child in need. We both have always enjoyed extremely close relationships with
our parents, and we very much want to share that deep bond with our own
children. You can rest assured that your baby will always have the love and
support of a caring family willing to do anything for them. We will raise your
child in a loving home filled with laughter, trust, and guidance. We want them
to be able to talk to us about anything, and to grow up in a safe, supportive
environment. We want them to have an active lifestyle filled with sports, music,
culture, and travel. We love to travel internationally as well as domestically,
so family vacations will be a regular occurrence.
We live in a beautiful home in a quiet suburb
near the water. We have a large fenced in yard with a deck and patio, and we’ll
often sit out on the deck after work and relax while we talk about our day. We are
close to amazing beaches, parks, theaters, restaurants, and excellent schools.
We live within walking distance to a 100 acre park with access to the beach,
boat slips, and walking trails. In the summer they host food truck events,
family outdoor movies, and 5K races. We also have one of the oldest and largest
4th of July parades in the country. We can’t wait to experience these events
with your child. We are also located near several private schools, and we
intend on giving your child the best education possible.
We currently have two fur babies: Otis (named
after the Motown singer, Otis Redding), a drooly and lovable 4-year-old French
Mastiff who was born on Christmas; and Gracie, an adorable and energetic kitten
born last Christmas Eve. The two of them are best buds who love taking naps
together and chasing each other around the house. They are both great with
children and we cannot wait to have a baby to add to the family dynamic. We are
both animal lovers and we will always have a dog and/or cat in the family.
We both have stable careers that offer
flexible schedules and the ability to work from home when we need to, and we
also have an incredible support system of family and friends to help us ensure
that your baby will be well taken care of at all times. This will also be the
first grandchild for Angela’s parents and they are just as excited as we are!
We look forward to teaching your child about all the things we love, and nurturing
their own talents and interests along the way.
We could go on forever talking about our
goals, life and animals, but we really would like to say thank you and
hopefully talk to you about everything in more detail if you choose us. Again,
thank you for reading our letter and looking at our profile, it means a lot.
Thank you for considering adoption and considering us! We finally have hope
that we can start a family soon! Thank you for providing us with this
incredible opportunity, for which we will be forever grateful.
With Love and Compassion,
Brian & Angela