During the summer when our nephews and nieces are here on vacation, our house is hectic, messy, and sticky. We are sleep deprived and exhausted and yet we love every minute of it. This is what we want on a permanent basis. We want to get up in the middle of the night for the nightly feedings and diaper changes. We want to watch our children sleeping. We want to answer all their “but why” questions. Jeff and I have wanted this for so long that all our decisions in life have been based on how it will affect our future child/ren. From the furniture we’ve purchased to the home we had built, we had him or her or them on our minds and in our hearts.
We are Doug and Carla. We have known each other for five years, and have been married since the summer of 2005. We were set up by mutual friends who thought we would be perfect for each other and they were right; we belong together like two pieces in a puzzle. It was love at first sight. After discovering our many common interests and shared values, we knew we were soul mates. We feel so fortunate to have found the kind of love that grows stronger everyday. We can’t wait to see each other at the end of the day, we laugh out loud all the time, and we enjoy sitting down to plan our future. A big part of that future includes having a family.
Hi, we are Ruben and Dina and we believe that God has a plan for all of us. We truly believe that God’s plan is for you and us to someday meet. We believe that we will be brought together to celebrate the miracle of life. We can only imagine what you must be going through during this difficult time. It takes a special, courageous and selfless person to place your baby for adoption. You are by far the bravest person we will ever meet. We thank you for taking the time to get to know us and for considering us when selecting the parents that will raise your child.
We live in a small, quiet and safe neighborhood. We recently bought our house and have been spending lots of time together working on making it a great home for children. We have three spacious bedrooms, a large front porch, and a deck in the back for family barbecues. We also have a large yard for playing any kind of sports. Our neighborhood is multi-generational with only four houses on eight acres of land. Our neighbors have become our friends and it’s a nice feeling to know we can count on them.
We are excited to fulfill our dream of becoming parents through adoption, and are committed to providing unconditional love and support to your child. We know that the decision to place your baby for adoption must not be easy, but we love you for it. Your strength, wisdom, and courage are to be admired and we will definitely impress this upon your child.
Hi there! With all the excellent families waiting (as we are) to find their own precious and special child, it must be challenging to choose the “right family fit” that you want for your baby. We can hardly wait to meet our new child, and we pray for the health and safety of the baby and the special, unselfish woman who will make our dreams come true by bringing our baby into our family.
Our lives have forever been blessed by the gift of family that we’ve been granted through adoption. Shanda was adopted as a child and we are the proud parents of our little boy, Aidan, whom we adopted last year. We know firsthand what a true and unselfish gift you are giving your child and we make this promise to you, as we promised our son’s birthmother, we will forever love and cherish your child and help them to become the best person they can be.
We are writing to you on Thanksgiving Day. Although we can’t find the words to express how thankful we are for you, we hope that in some way our words bring you comfort in your decision.
We are sensitive to the difficult decision you have made, and are also overwhelmed with the hope of becoming parents. We hope you know that your selfless act is something to be proud of and one that we will never forget. We know that we can offer so much love and security to your child, if given the opportunity. Please know that whatever your choice may be, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
It feels like thank you isn’t enough for the incredibly difficult decision you are making. Though we have not met, we are in awe of your compassion and courage. The gift of adoption is the ultimate act of profound love. We promise your baby will be loved, protected, and celebrated. He/she will be surrounded by family and friends who will always be there for him/her with unconditional love. We will describe you in his/her birth story exactly as we see you: an incredible woman who placed her child’s needs above those of your own.
We would like to thank you and praise God that you have decided to choose life for this precious child you are carrying with in you. Not everyone is able to bear children. That’s why God has given us angels like you. We have no idea what you are going thru right now, but we know that you are making a tough decision and God will bless you for it.
We are Tom and Suzie and we feel so incredibly blessed that you are reading our letter to you. What an amazing thing you are doing. We have been married since 2000 and we struggled with infertility from the very beginning. We know first hand what a blessing you are, because we have been blessed through adoption with our son Matthew. We prayed for him before we even knew who he was, just like we’ve been praying for you and your baby.
Your little one would be so loved. We can’t explain how excited we are to see what God has in store for our family. We have vivid daydreams of rocking them and singing lullabies until they fall asleep. Children are such a precious gift, and we will cherish every moment with them.
We live in beautiful Montana where the air is clean, the mountains soar, and people are friendly and active in the communities. It is the perfect place to raise children. There is almost no violent crime. Our small communities are filled with children that excel in sports and most of them go on to graduate from college.
I truly believe that things happen for a reason, and I like to believe that maybe some children are loved so much they are given two sets of parents; one set to give them life and another to raise them. We can’t pretend to know what you’re going through, what your life is like, or how you feel about all of this. We can only hope that whether or not your child finds a home with us, you will always have some measure of comfort that your selfless decision to seek out what is best for your child was the right one.
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