Although I can’t say that I know how difficult this process is for you, I can say that as someone who was adopted as an infant, I have spent a lot of time imagining it. Learning that there are many birthmothers out there who are putting their heart and soul into finding the best match for their baby has given me comfort in a way that I wasn’t even aware that I needed. Ed and I are so grateful to you for considering us to be the parents of your child, and if chosen, we promise that we will devote the rest of our lives to providing him or her with a loving and caring home filled with laughter and joy.
Though the journey ahead is a difficult one, we hope you will be comforted in knowing your precious gift will be received by loving parents. There will be many letters similar to this one that you will read in your search and after reading our letter we hope you will find that little spark that will bring you closer to your decision. We would be so blessed with your choice to entrust us with raising and loving your child.
We promise to help your child get through all the highs and lows of life and to give them endless support. We will instill the best parts of ourselves in your child, whether it’s James’ work ethic or Jackie’s caring and kind personality. Our goal is to help your child be successful in every part of their life.
We know that the choice you are making is probably the most difficult and heartbreaking decision you have ever made, and it’s nearly impossible for us to express our admiration for your courage and selflessness. You are a truly special person and we hope that you will find peace knowing that the child you are carrying will be nurtured, protected, and given countless opportunities for a bright, happy future.
As we write this letter we hope to be able to express the love we have for one another and our family as well as our appreciation for the huge decisions you are making. We would like to give you a glimpse into who we are, the family we have, the life we can provide to the child you are carrying, and the importance we place on the choices before you.
Having adopted once before, we’ve come to a deeper understanding of the journey that the birth mom and the adoptive parents go through. We won’t pretend to know everything about how you must feel during this process, but know that we have so much respect and admiration for you. We value the bond of trust that we formed with our son’s birth mom, and we look forward to growing that same kind of relationship with you.
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Hello, our names are Dianne and Patrick. We are very excited and honored that you have taken the time to consider us as the adoptive parents for your baby. We admire the strength and courage you have to consider such a wonderful gift of life for your baby. We realize that this is a life changing decision for you and your baby. We hope that you see the same values in us that you see in yourself and consider us as the couple to raise your baby.
We have a wish. Our wish is to share our life with your child. It will be a secure and happy life filled with love and laughter, an older sister and two parents who are completely devoted to their family. Your decision is not an easy one. Your child will know that there was a love that was so strong it was able to bring them to us. It is a brave and selfless gift you are offering and one that we will embrace and treasure every day.
We both want to thank you for the unselfish and courageous choice you are making. Your decision to place your child up for adoption is the greatest blessing that anyone could make to a family. Both Rebecca and I have wanted to be parents since our wedding three years ago. Unfortunately we have not been able to fulfill this desire naturally. We both agreed that adoption was the best way to realize our dream of having children and making our family complete.
We want you to know that if you select us, your baby will be the most loved baby there is. We will love your baby more than we can even begin to put into words.
| We have been very happily married for almost seven years, and have planned for a family since the time we were dating. However, life sometimes takes unexpected turns; after three years of trying to get pregnant, we learned that we were unable to do so. We never gave up on our dream of having a family, and feel utterly blessed that an adopted child is about to enter our life. Should you should decide to offer us the privilege of raising your child, we promise you that he or she will be loved completely and unconditionally. |
| We are Brock and Leticia and we met through friends 15 years ago. We won´t assume to know how difficult this is for you but we´re hoping we can make it somewhat easier on you by telling you about us, and our lives together. Perhaps by knowing what a loving family your child would grow up with would lay your fears to rest. |
Scott and I both know that even with all the activities we are involved in the one thing missing is sharing all of that, and the love in our hearts, with a baby. We are ready to stop being just a “couple” and start being a family. We may never know the flesh of our flesh, see my eyes staring back at me from another face, or a replica of my husband’s dimpled smile smiling up at me; but your baby would be the heart of our hearts.
We imagine our home filled with giggles, storybooks and endless love. We cannot wait to build a playhouse in our large yard and play a game of hide and seek. We cannot wait to be parents; our hearts are bursting with love to give.
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