We cherish Topher’s birth mother and she will always have a special role in his life. We want you to know that we look forward to having the child you entrust to us have a special relationship with you as well.
We are Sebastian and Aui, and we want you to know how often you are in our thoughts. Our hearts go out to you as you are making the important decision of who will become parents to your precious baby. We admire your courage and sacrifice to provide a secure future for your child. In this brief letter we hope to give you an idea of who we are, and what life in our family will be like for your baby.
We are Sky and Jamie, and our dream since we first met in 1996 has been to be a family of four. Our pregnancy with Ryan had many complications. We were expecting twins, but tragically we miscarried one of them. We realized then, how truly blessed we were to have one biological child. A psychic once told us “Sometimes women have miscarriages or abortions, but the soul of the child will come back to you when he/she is ready, even through adoption”. After we heard that statement, we were convinced that our decision to adopt was the right one.
We pray that God helps you find peace in your decision, and hope that you will take a moment to get to know us.
We are so impressed by your strength and courage to consider adoption for your child. It truly shows what kind of person you are to make such a selfless, brave, and trusting choice. We hope to live up to the standard you are setting, and to build our family with those values.
We pray that your life and ours will be filled with love and admiration for one another during this journey. This is truly the greatest gift that anyone could ever give to us. We believe God has a plan for everything in life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your decision to do what is best for you and your baby. Our hearts are open and ready to receive your child so we may provide him or her with love and happiness forever.
Our family has been forever touched by adoption already. Many years ago Jen’s sister was adopted from South Korea. About ten years later one of her brothers had a son with his girlfriend when they were very young and that baby was adopted. As a couple we have had plans to adopt since before we were married. We feel it is our responsibility as adoptive parents to honor the birthmother and celebrate the baby’s heritage in any way we can; we know from our family history how important it is to everyone.
We’re humbled and grateful to you for considering us to raise your child, and our hearts are with you in making this difficult decision. Thank you for the opportunity to tell you more about ourselves, our lives, and our hopes and dreams of raising a child.
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In our eyes you are a brave person who is making a tough yet unbelievably courageous decision. We appreciate the strength you are showing in your decision to provide a loving home to your baby and if you select us, we promise to raise your baby in a loving, faith-filled home…
We can’t wait to talk about our day or how school went with your child at the dinner table every night. We’re going to cheer for our favorite teams together. We’re going to play until we get worn out… the list can go on and on as long as we are always together.
Thank you, thank you for considering this, the most wonderful gift in the world – allowing us to love and raise a child. Our marriage finds strength in a shared desire to help make the world a better place, and we can’t think of a better way to do that than adopting a child to love, nurture, and care for.
Thank you for your love and selflessness in enabling us to grow our family. It is because of your courage that we can realize our dreams of expanding our family and sharing our loving home with another child.
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