What a tremendous act of love and bravery you have chosen! We can only imagine how difficult this time is for you and pray that you may find peace and comfort in our promise that your child will know love and security in our family. Our lives will be forever enriched because of your precious gift and we are eternally grateful to you.
We are honored that you are considering us as potential adoptive parents for this child. We understand that this must be a very difficult time for you as you decide what will be best for you and this baby. We have tremendous respect for your willingness to place the welfare of this child above your own feelings. It shows that you are a very special person with a great amount of courage and personal strength.
We love your child so much already. We promise to love them, protect them, comfort them and help them to grow into the wonderful person that you would want them to become. Thank you so much for this selfless and wonderful gift of life that you are giving us. We could never thank you enough. But, we know that you will be blessed in so many ways throughout your life for your gift to us.
My parents taught me the parent I want to be. They loved nothing more than spending time with our family. Mom is steadfast, hardworking and loving. Dad was easy to laugh. When he talked with you, you knew he just loved spending time with you.
“Little boys are treasures; who are worth their weight in gold and charm everyone around them; from the time they’re hours old. They’re Mommy’s little darling, they’re a special pal to Dad, and they bring the very happiest days, a family’s ever had!” – Author Unknown
I pray you do what is best for you and your unborn child. Just know whatever your decision is, I have peace with it.
We’ve written this letter over and over again to ensure that we put all of our thoughts and feelings into it, and then it just hit us, the only way to start this letter is by saying “Thank you!”
Hello, we are Cory and Holly and we are honored you are reading our letter. Although we cannot fully understand the decision you are faced with, we pray the letters you read will give you peace about your decision. We are unable to have children on our own, but are so excited about the possibility of having a child with the help of someone like you. Thank you for your consideration.
In the nursery amidst the rows of stuffed animals, blankets and bibs there will be a picture frame. It is in this frame that we will have a picture of you. Each day our child will be greeted by your smiling face, and each night we will tell them the story of how much you loved them. We will sweetly and gently share with them, how you loved them so much, that you searched out the parents who you knew in your heart would be just right.
Let us start off by thanking you for taking the time to read our letter. We also commend you for the sacrifice you are about to make. We can’t imagine how difficult this decision must be for you, however, we both know the benefits of the decision your about to make. My wife Kym and I were both adopted. We both share a very special bond and understand the sacrifice and love demonstrated by both of our biological mothers. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you make this selfless decision. We wish the best for you.
We believe you are a very brave and unselfish woman and we would like to express our respect and appreciation for the choice you are making. We are ready and excited to share our life with a child. For us, a child will complete our family and bring endless joy, laughter, and love to our home.
We are Jean and Shane, and we would like to tell you a little bit about us. I (Jean) am an elementary school teacher. I’ve had the pleasure of working with children for the past 11 years, and I know that each child has so much to offer and that each child is unique and special. I love helping each child learn, and I love getting to know each child throughout the school year. Shane also has a job that he loves. Since he is an eternal student, he loves that he is always learning something new at his job as an attorney.
We would like to take this first moment to thank you for the opportunity to tell you about ourselves. We do not pretend to know the feelings and emotions you must be experiencing; we only know that, while it may seem a little cliché, it truly does take an amazing amount of strength and courage to make the decision to place your baby with another family. So, while things are no doubt a little crazy for you right now, if nothing else, please know this: if you choose us to be the adoptive parents, your child will grow up in a loving and caring home with plenty of laughter, affection, support, and a touch of craziness!
It is an extraordinary woman who has the strength and love in challenging circumstances to do what is best for her baby. We can never understand the difficulty of your decisions, but we truly admire and respect you for the sacrifice you are making. Your search for a happy, loving, and stable home for your child may be the answer to our dreams of having a family, and we would be honored to take this journey with you.
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