Are you facing an unexpected or unplanned pregnancy? You may be wondering what your options are. You may decide on parenting, adoption or abortion. It is important that you learn more about your options before making a decision. You may decide that you’re not ready to raise a child and consider the unplanned pregnancy options: adoption versus abortion.
The thought of caring for a baby that has come as a surprise may be overwhelming, especially if you are not in a space where you can properly provide for the baby or yourself. “How will my life change and how will I manage?” May be a thought that crosses your mind. Whether you have supportive family, financial stability, a job or even school commitment, there are several factors that you must consider when making the best decision for you. Let’s walk through each choice, hopefully leaving you with a clear path towards the decision that is right for you.
What is adoption? Placing your child for adoption means that after carrying the child to term, you release your parental rights and place the child permanently with an Adoptive Family. This could mean a straight couple, gay couple or even a single person. Adoption is often viewed as the more acceptable and kinder option when compared to abortion, but it has both advantages and disadvantages also. Before we go over the pros and cons of adoption, let’s briefly outline what the adoption process will be like for you.
Step 1: Connect.
As a Birth Mother, you will get in contact with an adoption agency, lawyer or other Adoption Professional who will help guide you to the right resources and through the adoption process. You will need to complete and provide the necessary paperwork which may include your personal and health history.
Step 2: Get Support.
The agency and/or Adoption Professional will connect you with an Adoption Advisor who will be your guide and point of contact throughout the process. Your advisor will be able to answer your questions about things like financial support during your pregnancy, provide emotional support and even possibly connect you with a Mentor, another Birth Mother who knows what you are going through and can help you navigate through the emotions.
Step 3: Choose a family.
You will view profiles of families hoping to adopt, getting to know them through photos, letters and other media before making a decision. Your Adoption Advisor will act as the liaison between you and the family or person you choose for your baby, and may set up a phone call or meeting between you and the potential Adoption Parent(s).
Step 4: Create a birth plan.
Your Adoption Advisor will help you create a birth plan for your hospital stay so that everyone knows what to expect.
If you are facing unplanned or unintended pregnancy and would like to discuss your options, please call us for a free consultation: 1-866-596-1522
If you are faced with an unexpected pregnancy, remember that you do have options to choose from, even if they may not be exactly what you want. Through serious contemplation, prayer (if you are religious), counseling, support, research, and more, you can come to the decision that is right for you, your body, and your baby. Whatever you decide, however, it is your choice and should be respected. If you are interested in finding out more on adoption call us for a free consultation: 1-866-596-1522. An Adoption Representative is ready to discuss your options.
What is abortion? Abortion is the termination of pregnancy by removing the fetus or embryo before it is able to survive outside of the uterus. Abortions are often done within the earlier stages of the first trimester, when handled medically. However, spontaneous abortions, also known as a miscarriage, may occur throughout pregnancy. If you decide to have an intentional abortion performed by a medical professional, the pros and cons include:
It is important to discuss both pros and cons of an abortion with your doctor before making a decision. In some cases, like those listed above, your doctor may suggest an abortion to protect your health. In others, your doctor may caution against an abortion. It is important to weigh all your options and know your health risks to ensure your own mental and physical health and wellbeing.
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