The adoption process can take an incredibly long time, which can cause serious strain and stress for some families. Usually, adoption wait times can be anywhere from several months to a year or more, and the wait time can be even longer for international adoptions Though long wait times may be necessary for some adoptions, many families wish to find ways to reduce these long waits in any way that they can.
There are a wide variety of reasons why wait times may vary from adoption to adoption, and this includes the personal preferences of the Adopting Parents. Fortunately, there are ways to minimize adoption wait times that can help you grow your family sooner rather than later. Other reasons may include financial funds. Typically, if allowed by state law, Birth Mothers require financial assistance during their adoption journey. Having funds set aside beforehand, as allowed by state law, for these expenses may help speed up the preparedness of the Adoptive Family.
These options, tips, and tweaks to your adoption plan can help minimize your wait time. Throughout your adoption journey, Adoption Network is here to guide you through every step and help you minimize your wait time as best as possible.
Why Adoption can Take so Long
In both domestic and international adoptions, average wait times can range from a few months to over years. A lot goes into adoption, and there are often very stringent requirements set in place by the government, as well as adoption agencies and professionals, in different states and countries.
Your adoption wait time could be lower or higher depending upon where you adopt from, and the type of adoption you opt for can play a part in the wait time as well. For example, if you decide to adopt from outside of the country, you will have to follow not only your home country’s adoption rules, but also the rules of adoption in your child’s home country. With the combination or requirements, rules, and stipulations, waiting for your child can become a long process.
What you can do to Reduce the Wait Time
Minimizing adoption wait times
There may be certain factors that help minimize adoption wait times. Your adoption preferences will play a major factor in your wait time.The stricter your adoption plan and preferences, the longer the wait time can be.
Some families find that having a rigid adoption plan is best for ensuring that everything runs smoothly when trying to welcome their new child. Such rigid plans, however, leave little room for any changes that can actually bring your child to you sooner. The best thing to do if you want a shorter wait to is to have plenty of flexibility in both your plan and the various factors associated with adoption. These include:
  • Race: As Adopting Parents, you may have preferences in the race/ethnicity of the child you would like to adopt. When you are open to adopting children of more races/ethnicities, your profiles will be seen by more Birth Parents, which may help in minimizing your wait time.
  • Gender: Those who approach adoption with a certain child in mind may think they’ll make their adoption process go faster, but it can actually slow things down. Wanting a boy or a girl can affect wait times depending upon age, availability, health, and other factors depending upon where the child is being adopted from.
  • Budget: Adoption can get pricey, and though there are grants and loans available for adoptive families, sometimes the budget just isn’t what it needs to be. Your budget can get a major say in when you adopt, who you adopt, and how you adopt, so it’s important to be as financially prepared as possible. This means being open to taking out loans and applying for grants, as well as other financial resources and avenues.
  • Contact with Birth Parents: Whether you choose an open or closed adoption can impact your wait time as well. It is difficult to say which choice is shorter, as each come with their own advantages and disadvantages. This factor relies heavily on the child that is placed with you and the relationship you hold with the Birth Parents. Today, most adoptions are open or semi­open in which the Birth Mother may receive photos and/or update about the child, and, in some cases, may even visit.
Adopted child laying on back sipping from bottle
While adoption wait times can be long, you don’t have to suffer and wait forever. Try to be open, flexible, and ready for anything when looking to minimize wait times. By doing so, you can find ways to be more open to the many diverse options. Sometimes, the wait time can be dramatically affected by your own personal desires and wants in your adoption plan.
Take a look and re­evaluate what is important to you in your adoption preferences and talk with your adoption professional for guidance. It may be that the perfect child for your family is one that you never expected. In every case, any child is a miracle of life and a blessing, and he/she will certainly find a home in your arms if you surround it with love.