Four challenging years of failed attempts to have a child have caused us to reflect on our purpose as husband and wife. It couldn’t be clearer to us that being adoptive parents is our destiny and God’s will for us.
“Twinkle, Twinkle, little star, how we’ve wondered who you are”. Countless nights we have prayed that God would bestow another angel we can watch giggle and play. We have an unknown cause of infertility that has prevented us from having children of our own. When a door closes a window is opened, adoption has been that window for us.
Putting our true feelings into words is not easy. And it is completely inadequate in demonstrating how we feel about your decision. We respect you and value your time in making such a courageous choice for your baby.
“Little boys are treasures; who are worth their weight in gold and charm everyone around them; from the time they’re hours old. They’re Mommy’s little darling, they’re a special pal to Dad, and they bring the very happiest days, a family’s ever had!” – Author Unknown
Jason and I met in 2001 and became good friends, and after a couple of years of dating we got married on October 23, 2004. We have been happily married since. However, we have had to go through some tough moments in life for we have had many miscarriages. Each miscarriage was painful to go through for both of us, but we feel God has led us to adoption through all of this. The experience has only made us grow closer and caused us to depend more on each other.
We are Amanda and James (Jimmy) and we want to first thank you for unselfishly considering such an amazing gift. We have prayed and talked about who you may be and the tough challenges you are facing, and we want you to know we have so much love to give to your child.
| We know your decision is a difficult one. We would be more than honored to raise your child in our loving and safe home. We will have lots of support from family and friends as we adjust to parenting. Our prayers are with you during this difficult and courageous time in your life. |
We have been married since 1999, and our hope has always been to have a home that is filled with the sounds of children and laughter. We adopted our son Vincent in 2006. Vincent lights up the room with his smile and we have no doubts in our minds that he will be a gentle loving big brother. We feel the bond between siblings is a special one and we can’t wait to give that to our son and to the precious baby you carry. They will become lifelong friends.
We are Erick and Yanet and we are very excited and especially blessed to have the opportunity to bring a child into our lives. We can’t imagine the emotion and energy it takes to work towards making this decision and we hope that you are surrounded by people who support and love you. Our hearts and prayers are with you in this courageous decision.
We were very blessed when we adopted Kayla in that we were given the chance to become close to our birthmother and learn about all her hopes and dreams. We hope that we are afforded the same opportunity with you. We wish you all the best as you make your journey.
Warmest greetings! Some strange and unforeseen circumstances have pitted us together to perhaps create a miracle. The decision that you have made is as difficult as a person can make and it is absolutely the right one. Words can not describe the feelings we have for you as you are making our dream come true. There are so many roads that you could have taken and your choice will not only benefit us, but your child will be happy, healthy, comfortable, and in a home with unconditional love.
Hi! Thanks for taking the time to read our letter. While we cannot imagine how difficult your decision must be, we can tell you how grateful we are that we are in a position to offer a wonderful life and lots of love to the child, who is chosen to join our family. We are Jason and Christine and we’d love to tell you a little about ourselves, our families, and household.
We have always wanted children but have been unable to have our own so we immediately considered adoption as the best option for us. Shannon has a grandmother who was adopted and we have friends who have adopted, so adoption seemed a very natural choice for us. Although we have many options for childcare such as doting grandparents and an on-site daycare facility where Shannon works, our work schedules will allow one of us to be at home with the baby fulltime.
You are an amazing and courageous woman for choosing life for your little one. We know that you are making some of the most difficult decisions you’ve ever had to make and we pray for you to have the strength and peace you need during this journey.
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